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ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hahau ʻana i nā wahine hoʻokahi

Inā moeʻuhane ke kaikamahine hoʻokahi e hahau ʻia ʻo ia a ma ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ua ikaika ʻo ia i kāna aʻo ʻana, hiki ke unuhi ʻia ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona o kona kūlana maikaʻi a me kāna kūleʻa hoʻonaʻauao i hoʻohālikelike ʻia me kāna mau hoa.

I ka wā o ka hahau ʻana mai kekahi o nā ʻohana o ke kaikamahine, hiki ke noʻonoʻo ʻia ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona o ka nui o ka maikaʻi a me ka pōmaikaʻi e loaʻa iā ia mai kāna pilina me lākou i ke ola maoli.

ʻO ka wahine e kokoke ana i ka makahiki male a ʻike ʻo ia i loko o kāna moeʻuhane e hahau ana kekahi iā ia, hiki ke unuhi ʻia kēia moe he hōʻailona e hoʻopaneʻe ʻia kāna hoʻopaʻa ʻana a male paha.

ʻO ka hahau lima i ka moeʻuhane no nā wāhine hoʻokahi

I ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane, ʻo ka moeʻuhane o ka hahau ʻia e ka lima no kahi kaikamahine hoʻokahi he mau manaʻo maikaʻi. Ke moeʻuhane ke kaikamahine e paʻi ana kekahi iā ia me kona lima, hiki i kēia moeʻuhane ke hōʻailona o ka hiki ʻana mai o ka maikaʻi a me nā hanana kūleʻa i kona ola.

Ināʻike kekahi kaikamahine iā ia iho e paʻiʻia e ka lima, ua'ōlelo pinepineʻia kēia he hōʻailona o kona hālāwaiʻana me kona hoa ola e hiki mai ana, a me ka hoʻomakaʻana o kahi mokuna hou i kona ola aloha he pilina hou a koʻikoʻi e hiki mai ana iā ia.

He hōʻailona paha kēia moeʻuhane i ka nui o ke ola, no ka mea, ʻike ʻia ka hoʻonui ʻana i ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona o ka pōmaikaʻi a me nā pōmaikaʻi e loaʻa ai ko lākou ala i loko o ke ola o kahi wahine hoʻokahi, e hōʻike ana i ka hoʻonui ʻana i ka nohona a me ka hoʻonui ʻana i ka maikaʻi i kona ola.

No ke kaikamahine e hana ana, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i kekahi e paʻi lima iā ia i loko o kāna moeʻuhane he hōʻailona paha ia o ka holomua ʻoihana, e like me ka hoʻokiʻekiʻe ʻana a i ʻole ka lawe ʻana i nā kuleana hou, kahi hōʻailona o nā hanana maikaʻi i kāna ʻoihana.

Ua maopopo ka moeʻuhane o ka hahauʻia e ka wahine hoʻokahi e lawe i nā manaʻo maikaʻi a hōʻike i ka wā e hiki mai ana, inā ma ka pilina pilikino, ola, a iʻole ka holomuaʻoihana, e lilo ai kēiaʻano moe i kumu o ka manaʻolana a me ka manaʻolana.

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ʻO ka weheweheʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka paʻiʻana i ka maka no nā wāhine hoʻokahi

Ke moeʻuhane ke kaikamahine hoʻokahi ua paʻi ʻia ʻo ia ma ka maka, e hōʻike paha kēia i nā paio a me nā pilikia i kēia manawa i loko o kona ola e hoʻopilikia maikaʻi ʻole i kona kūlana noʻonoʻo, e ʻike i kahi leo i kāna mau moeʻuhane.

Inā ʻike ʻo ia iā ia iho e paʻi ana i kona mau maka me kona lima ma ka moeʻuhane, hōʻike paha kēia i kona mihi ʻana i kāna hoʻoholo wikiwiki i hana ai, inā paha ma ke kahua o ka pilina a i ʻole kahi manawa hana waiwai nui.

Ke huli nei i nā moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka paʻi ʻana i ke poʻo, ʻo kahi kaikamahine hoʻokahi i ʻike iā ia iho i loko o ia ʻano kūlana paha i ke kaʻina o ka lanakila ʻana i kahi manawa piha i nā pilikia, e hōʻike ana i kona komo ʻana i kahi manawa hou o ke kūpaʻa a me ka maluhia.

Inā hahau ʻia ke poʻo o ka wahine hoʻokahi ma ka moeʻuhane, e hōʻike ana kēia i kona mihi maoli no nā hewa i hala a me kona hoʻokipa ʻana i kahi manawa hou i piha i ka manaʻoʻiʻo a me nā hana maikaʻi e loaʻa ai ka ʻae ʻana o ke Akua.

ʻO ka hahau i loaʻa i ka wahine hoʻokahi ma ke poʻo i loko o ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka hōʻea ʻana o ka nūhou hauʻoli, e hōʻike ana i ka hiki ʻana mai o nā manawa hauʻoli e hoʻololi i ke ala o kona ola no ka maikaʻi.

ʻO ka weheweheʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hahauʻana i kahi wahine hoʻokahi mai kahi kanaka iʻikeʻoleʻia

Ke moeʻuhane ka wahine hoʻokahi e hahau ʻia ʻo ia e kekahi mea āna i ʻike ʻole ai, he hōʻailona paha ia o ka hoʻokō ʻana o nā makemake a me ka pane i nā pule. He hōʻailona paha kēia i nā loli maikaʻi e hiki mai ana i loko o kona ola, e like me ka mare ʻana i kekahi me nā ʻano maikaʻi, loaʻa kahi hana i makemake ʻia, a i ʻole ka loaʻa ʻana o ka kūleʻa maoli ma kahi kahua kikoʻī.

ʻO ka hihiʻo i ʻike ai ke kaikamahine i ka hahau ʻana mai kahi malihini, hiki ke hōʻike i ka nui o ke ola a me ka waiwai kūpono, e like me ka loaʻa ʻana o ka hoʻoilina i manaʻo ʻole ʻia.

Inā pili ka hahau ʻana i ka lima o ke kaikamahine ma ka moeʻuhane, hiki i kēia ke wānana i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana e hiki mai ana me kahi ʻōpio nona nā ʻano maikaʻi a me nā ʻano maikaʻi.

ʻO ka hahauʻana me ka lāʻau i ka moeʻuhane no nā wāhine hoʻokahi

Inā ʻike ke kaikamahine iā ia iho e hahau ʻia me kahi lāʻau a hao paha, e hōʻike ana kēia hihiʻo e wehe ʻia nā puka o ke ola nona, e like me ka loaʻa ʻana o ka loaʻa kālā nui a i ʻole ke kūʻai ʻana i nā lole hou. ʻO kēia moeʻuhane hoʻi i unuhi ʻia he hōʻailona o kahi manawa o ka paʻa o ka psychological a me ka hauʻoli i ka wā e hiki mai ana.

Inā he kaikamahine ka mea nāna i hahau i kekahi kanaka, inā he kāne a he wahine paha, ma ka moeʻuhane e hoʻohana ana i ka lāʻau, a laila lawe kēia hihiʻo i kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻo e pili ana i ka puka ʻana o nā pilikia a me nā paio me ka mea i hahau ʻia, hiki ke alakaʻi i kona manaʻo noʻonoʻo. ʻeha a me ka ʻeha i nā wā e hiki mai ana o kona ola.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hahau ʻana o kahi makua kāne i kāna kaikamahine male ʻole

Ma ka wehewehe ʻana o Ibn Sirin i ka ʻike ʻana i ka makua kāne e hahau ana i kāna kaikamahine hoʻokahi i ka moeʻuhane, hiki ke hoʻohālikelike ʻia nā ʻano like ʻole ma muli o ke ʻano o ka hahau ʻana a me ka hopena o ke kaikamahine.

ʻO ka paʻi māmā a aloha paha e hōʻike ana i ka pilina ikaika a me ka hoʻomaopopo maikaʻi ma waena o ka makua kāne a me ke kaikamahine.

Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, inā he ikaika a ʻeha ka hahau ʻana, e hōʻike ana paha kēia i ke koi ʻana o ka makua kāne i kāna kaikamahine e ʻae i ka mare ʻaʻole ʻo ia i makemake, ʻoiai inā he hoahānau ke kāne.

ʻO ka paʻi ʻana i ka maka he hōʻailona paha ia i kahi kanaka e noi ana i ka lima o ke kaikamahine mai kona makuakāne he ʻano maikaʻi paha kēia kanaka, akā ʻaʻole ʻike ke kaikamahine i nā kikoʻī o kēia mea.

ʻO ka moeʻuhane o kahi kaikuahine e paʻi ana i kona kaikuahine hoʻokahi ma ka moeʻuhane

Inā ʻike ke kaikamahine hoʻokahi i ka moeʻuhane e ʻike ʻia ana ʻo ia e hahau ʻia e kona kaikuahine, inā he ʻōpio a ʻoi paha ʻo ia, e hōʻike ana kēia hiʻohiʻona i ke alakaʻi waiwai a me ke alakaʻi ʻana e pōmaikaʻi ai kēia kaikamahine ma o nā ʻike a me kona akamai, e kōkua iā ia e ʻike. ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i nā pilikia e kū nei i kona ola.

ʻOiai inā he ʻokoʻa ka moeʻuhane, kahi i ʻike ʻia ai ke kaikamahine hoʻokahi e hahau ana i kona kaikuahine, a laila ma kēia ʻano ʻo ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o ke kākoʻo a me ke kākoʻo a ke kaikamahine e hāʻawi ai i kona kaikuahine i ke ola maoli, e hoʻoikaika ai i ka ikaika o ka pilina. ma waena o lākou a hōʻike i ka nui o ka nānā a me ka mālama ʻana i ke kaikuahine mai ke kaikamahine hoʻokahi.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka ʻike ʻana i ka hahau ʻia ʻana me ka hahau ma ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine hoʻokahi

ʻO ka weheweheʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hahauʻia me ka hahau no ke kaikamahine hoʻokahi hiki ke lawe i nā manaʻo likeʻole e pili ana i kona mauʻike a me nā kūlana e hiki mai ana. I kekahi manawa, hōʻike kēia moeʻuhane e ʻike paha ʻo ia i kekahi mau kūlana paʻakikī e pili ana i kona noʻonoʻo a me kona mau manaʻo i ka wā e hiki mai ana. Hiki i ke kaikamahine ke kū i nā kūlana i manaʻo ai ʻo ia i ka hewa nui, inā ma ke ʻano noʻonoʻo a i ʻole kona pilina pili.

Hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i ka hiki ʻana o kekahi mau pilikia paʻakikī i loko o kona ola, e like me ka hāʻule ʻana i kahi kipi a i ʻole ka hoʻolaha ʻana o nā lono e hiki ke hōʻino i kona inoa.

Hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i nā poho waiwai a iʻole ka nalowale o ke kūlana pilikanaka a pilikino paha. ʻO kēiaʻano o ka weheweheʻana i ka moeʻuhane e kāhea aku i ke kaikamahine e makaʻala i kāna mau hana kālā a me ka pilikanaka i mea e pale ai i ka holoʻana i nā pilikia e hiki ke uku iā ia.

Ka wehewehe ʻana o ka ʻike ʻana i ka hahau ʻana me ka lāʻau ma ka moeʻuhane

He ʻokoʻa nā manaʻo o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hahau ʻia me ka ʻohe, a ua hilinaʻi lākou i ke ʻano o ka mea e moeʻuhane ai.

Hiki i kēia moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i nā ʻike paʻakikī a ke kanaka e hele ai i loko o kona ola maoli, ʻoiai inā e ʻeha ʻo ia i ka moeʻuhane.

No ka wahine ʻōpio hoʻokahi, hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke wānana i nā lohi e kū ai ʻo ia ma ke ala e mare ai.

No ka wahine male, he hōʻailona paha ka moeʻuhane o nā pilikia a i ʻole nā ​​kuʻikahi i ke ola male.

No ka wahine hāpai, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i kekahi poʻe e hahau ana iā ia ma kāna moeʻuhane, hiki ke unuhi ʻia he hōʻailona ke kokoke mai kona lā hānau.

No ke kāne male e moeʻuhane ana e hahau ʻia ʻo ia me ka lāʻau, e hōʻike ana kēia moeʻuhane e kū ana ʻo ia i nā pilikia a i ʻole ka hāʻule ʻana i kekahi o kāna mau papahana.

Ka wehewehe ʻana o ka ʻike ʻana i ka paʻi ʻana me ka kāmaʻa ma ka moeʻuhane

ʻO ka weheweheʻana i nā moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka paʻiʻana i kahi kāmaʻa ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i kahi hui o nā manaʻo likeʻole e like me ka weheweheʻana o Ibn Sirin. Inā ma ka moeʻuhane e ʻike ʻia ua paʻi ʻia kekahi me kahi kāmaʻa, hōʻike paha kēia i ka ʻike ʻana o ke kanaka i nā kamaʻilio maikaʻi ʻole a i ʻole ka ʻōlelo hōʻino mai nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka ʻike ʻana i ka paʻi ʻana me ka kāmaʻa i ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona paha ia o ke kanaka ponoʻī e hoʻohana ana i nā ʻōlelo kūpono ʻole a i ʻole ka ʻōlelo ʻino.

No ka wahine male e moeʻuhane ana e paʻi ana kāna kāne iā ia me kahi kāmaʻa, hōʻike paha kēia i ka ʻike ʻana i kahi pilina male paʻa ʻole i hōʻike ʻia e ke kāne.

Ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hahau ʻana i ke kanaka make

Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Imam Al-Nabulsi, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea make i hahau ʻia ma ka moeʻuhane he nui nā manaʻo e pili ana i ke ʻano o ka moeʻuhane a me ke ʻano o ka mea make.

Hoʻomaopopo ʻia kēia ʻano moeʻuhane he hōʻailona o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka pōmaikaʻi a hauʻoli i ke olakino maikaʻi no ka mea moeʻuhane. Ua manaʻo ʻia he hiki ke hoʻolaha i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka waiwai a me ka piʻi ʻana o ke ola.

Inā ʻo ka mea make i hahau ʻia ma ka moeʻuhane he kanaka i ʻike ʻia no kāna ʻano ʻino a i ʻole ka nohona kūpono ʻole i kona wā e ola ana, a laila, ʻokoʻa ke ʻano o ka moeʻuhane.

ʻO ka hahauʻana i ka moeʻuhane no nā wāhine hoʻokahi mai kahi kaikunāne

Ke moeʻuhane kekahi kaikamahine ʻaʻole i mare ʻia e hoʻouka ana kona kaikunāne iā ia me ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka hahau, hōʻike kēia i nā ʻōlelo aʻo e pili ana i ka nānā ʻana i ka inoa a me ka pono.

Inā loaʻa i ka hihiʻo ke kaikunāne e hoʻohana ana i ka pahi kaua e hahau, he hōʻailona kēia o ke kūlana kūʻē koʻikoʻi i loko o ka ʻohana e alakaʻi ai i ka hakakā ma waena o nā lālā.

Ke ʻike ke kaikamahine iā ia iho e hoʻokahe koko ai ka lima o kona kaikunāne ma ka moeʻuhane, hōʻike kēia i ke kaikunāne e kū i nā pilikia kālā nui i ka wā e hiki mai ana.

ʻO ka weheweheʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hahauʻana i ka hahau no nā wāhine hoʻokahi

ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ka hahau ʻia me ka hahau ma ka moeʻuhane, ʻo ia kekahi o nā moeʻuhane e hoʻoulu ai i ka hopohopo a me ka makaʻu i ka mea i loaʻa iā ia, ʻoi aku hoʻi no kahi kaikamahine hoʻokahi. Hiki i kēia moeʻuhane ke lawe i kekahi mau manaʻo e pili ana i ke kaiapuni a puni a me nā pilikia e kū mai ana.

I ka ʻike ʻana o ke kaikamahine hoʻokahi ma kāna moeʻuhane e hahau ʻia ana ʻo ia me ka hahau, he hōʻailona paha kēia aia kekahi poʻe i loko o kāna pōʻai kaiaulu e nānā pono ai ʻo ia no ka mea hiki iā lākou ke hoʻopaʻa i nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole iā ia a i ʻole e hoʻolālā e keakea i kona ala. ma na ano manao.

Inā ʻike ke kaikamahine iā ia iho e hahau ʻia me ka hahau akā ua hoʻokō ʻo ia e pakele, e hōʻike paha kēia i kona hiki ke lanakila i nā pilikia a me nā pilikia i hiki ke keʻakeʻa i kona ala i ka wā e hiki mai ana.

ʻO ka hahau ʻia ʻana me ka hahau i loko o ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike paha i kahi hewa a i ʻole pilikia a ke kaikamahine e kū nei i kona ola maoli. Hiki iā ia ke hōʻike i kona manaʻo kaumaha i ka hāʻule ʻana i nā kūlana ʻaʻole nona ponoʻī, a pono ʻo ia i ke ahonui, hilinaʻi i ke Akua, a me ka noi ʻana iā ia e lanakila ma luna o lākou.

Ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hailuku ʻia no ka wahine hoʻokahi

ʻO ka hihiʻo o kahi wahine hoʻokahi i hahau ʻia me nā pōhaku i kāna moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana e kū ana ʻo ia i nā pilikia a me nā pilikia i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.

Ke ʻike ka wahine hoʻokahi iā ia iho i mea i hailuku ʻia e kekahi mea ʻē aʻe ma ka moeʻuhane, hōʻike paha kēia i ke kū ʻana o nā kuʻikahi a i ʻole ka manaʻo huhū me kēia kanaka i ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā. Hāpai ka moeʻuhane i loko o ia mea he hōʻailona o nā paio e hiki mai ana i loko o kona ola koke.

Hiki i ka wahine hoʻokahi ke ʻike iā ia iho e kū ana i nā pilikia e pili ana i kāna pilina pili kanaka a i ʻole ka hoʻokō ʻana i kāna mau makemake ʻoihana.

Hiki i kēia ʻike ke lilo i ʻōlelo aʻo iā ia aia nā pilikia ma ka wahi o nā manaʻo, e hoʻoikaika ana i ka mea nui o ka hana ʻana i ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho a me ke ahonui e lanakila ai i kēia mau pilikia.

ʻIke i ke kuʻi ʻana o kekahi ma ka wāwae ma ka moeʻuhane

I ka ʻike ʻana o ke kanaka ma kāna moeʻuhane e kuʻi ana ʻo ia i ka wāwae ʻē aʻe, hiki ke wehewehe ʻia kēia ma muli o ke kuʻi ʻana o ka wāwae.

Inā ma ka wāwae'ākau ka hahau, ua hoʻomaopopoʻia kēia he hana maikaʻi ka mea moeʻuhane i ke ola o nā mea'ē aʻe, e like me ka hāʻawiʻana i ka'ōlelo aʻo a me ke alakaʻi i ka maikaʻi a me ka paleʻana i nā hana maikaʻiʻole.

Inā ma ka wāwae hema ka hahau, hōʻailona paha kēia i ke kōkua i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i ke kūlana kālā o ka mea ʻē aʻe a i ʻole ka hoʻonui ʻana i ke kālā i loaʻa iā ia.

ʻO ka hahau ʻia ʻana ma nā wāwae ʻelua ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike pū ana paha e hoʻopau ka mea moeʻuhane i nā hopohopo a i ʻole nā ​​mea keʻakeʻa i ka hoʻokō ʻana i kāna mau pahuhopu, a hiki ke hōʻike i ka hiki ke hele a hoʻomaka i kahi papahana hou.

Inā ʻike ke kanaka iā ia iho e hahau ana i kahi malihini ma ka wāwae ma ka moeʻuhane, hōʻike kēia i kona manaʻo e kōkua i ka poʻe nele a ʻimi paha i ke kōkua.

No ka paʻi ʻana i kahi kanaka kaulana i ka wāwae, hōʻike paha kēia i ke kākoʻo kālā i hāʻawi ʻia e ka mea moeʻuhane i kēia kanaka. Inā he ʻohana ka mea i hoʻopilikia ʻia, ʻo ia paha ka hāʻawi ʻana i ke kākoʻo kālā a mālama paha iā ia.

Inā hele mai ka pā i ka wāwae me kahi mea, manaʻo ʻia he hōʻailona kēia i ke kōkua i ka hana koʻikoʻi i kahi pahuhopu, e like me ka huakaʻi a i ʻole ke komo ʻana i kahi ʻoihana hou.

Ke ʻike ʻana i kekahi i hahau ʻia a pepehi ʻia ma ka moeʻuhane

ʻO ka moeʻuhane e hoʻouka kekahi kanaka i kekahi kanaka a pepehi iā ia e hōʻike ana i ka manaʻo o ka pono ʻole a me ka lawe ʻana i nā kuleana o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.

Inā hana ʻia ka hana ʻino i loko o ka moeʻuhane me ka hoʻohana ʻana i kahi mea hana, hōʻike kēia i hiki i ke kanaka ke hoʻohana i ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e hoʻokō ai i kāna mau pahuhopu a i ʻole e hōʻeha i kekahi. Eia kekahi, ʻo ka moeʻuhane o ka hahau ʻana i kekahi me ka lāʻau e hōʻike ana i ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka hoʻopunipuni a me ka maʻalea i ka hana ʻana me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.

Ināʻo ka mea moeʻuhane ka mea i hahauʻia a pepehiʻia ma ka moeʻuhane, hiki i kēia ke hōʻike i ka manaʻo hopohopo e pili ana i ka hopena o kāna mau hana i kaʻoiaʻiʻo a me ka hiki ke hoʻopaʻiʻia no lākou.

Inā ʻike ke kanaka ma kāna moeʻuhane i kekahi mea āna i ʻike ai i ka hahau ʻana a me ka pepehi ʻana iā ia, e hōʻike ana paha ia he pilikia a ʻino paha e kali mai ana iā ia mai kēia kanaka.

ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kekahi e paʻi ana i kekahi ma ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine male

No ka wahine male, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i ka hahau ʻia i loko o ka moeʻuhane e lawe i nā manaʻo he nui e pili ana i ka pōʻaiapili o ka moeʻuhane. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ka hahau ʻana i kekahi ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona maikaʻi ia e hōʻike ana i ka maikaʻi o kāna mau hana a me kāna mau manaʻo.

ʻO ka paʻi ʻana i kahi mea ʻike ʻole ʻia ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike paha i kona hiki ke mālama i kona home a mālama pono i kona ʻohana.

Inā hōʻeha nui ʻia ʻoe e kāu kāne ma ka moeʻuhane, hiki ke unuhi ʻia kēia me ke alo ʻana i nā pilikia me ia e hoʻopau me nā hopena maluhia. ʻO ke kāne e hahau ana i kāna wahine ma ka moeʻuhane i manaʻo ʻia he hōʻailona o ka pale a me ka pale ʻana i kāna mau pono.

ʻO ka ʻike ʻana iā ʻoe iho e hahau ʻia me ke koʻokoʻo e hōʻike ana i ke kākoʻo a me ke kōkua e loaʻa iā ʻoe ma ke ʻano o ka home a me ka ʻohana. ʻOiai ʻo ka hailuku ʻia he hōʻailona ia e kū ana i nā hoʻopiʻi hewa paha.

No ke kuʻi ʻana i ka wāwae, hōʻike ia i ke kōkua kālā e loaʻa iā ʻoe. Inā ʻo ia ka mea e hana ana i ka hahau ʻana i ka moeʻuhane, hōʻike kēia i kāna kuleana maikaʻi a me kāna mālama ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.

ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kekahi e paʻi ana i kekahi ma ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine hemo

Ke ʻike ka wahine male male i kāna moeʻuhane e hahau ana ʻo ia i kekahi, he hōʻailona kēia o kāna kuleana maikaʻi a pōmaikaʻi i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. ʻO ka moeʻuhane o ka hahau ʻana i kāna keiki, koi ia i ka manaʻo e pale a pale iā ia mai ka pōʻino.

I ka weheweheʻana i ka hihiʻo o ka wahine hemo i ka hahauʻana i kāna kāne i hala ma ka moeʻuhane, hiki ke unuhiʻia kēia he hōʻailona o ka hōʻino a iʻole ka makemake e hōʻino a pāpā paha iā ia no kekahi mea āna i hana ai.

Inā ʻike ʻo ia i kahi mea āna i ʻike ai e paʻi ana iā ia ma ka moeʻuhane, hōʻike paha kēia i ka makemake e hoʻoikaika i ka pilina a hoʻokokoke aku i kēlā kanaka.

ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi wahine male male i hahau ʻia e kāna kāne ex-kāne ma ka moeʻuhane, a hōʻike paha kēia e kali ana ʻo ia i ka alimony a i ʻole ke kākoʻo kālā mai iā ia.

ʻO ka hahau ʻia e ka ʻohana o kekahi ma ka moeʻuhane ʻo ia ke kākoʻo a me ke kākoʻo i loaʻa iā ia mai lākou i kona ola.

ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ke kuʻi ʻana i kekahi ma ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine hāpai

I loko o ke ao o ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane, ʻo nā hihiʻo o ka hahau ʻia e lawe i nā manaʻo he nui no ka wahine hāpai, ʻokoʻa ma muli o nā kikoʻī o ka moeʻuhane.

Ke ʻike ka wahine hāpai i loko o kāna moeʻuhane e hahau ana kekahi iā ia, e hōʻike ana paha kēia i ka kokoke o kāna lā kūpono, ʻoiai ʻo ka hahau ʻana i kahi keiki i kāna moeʻuhane e hōʻailona paha i ka hoʻopau ʻana o nā hopohopo a me nā manaʻo kānalua.

Eia naʻe, inā pili ka hihiʻo i ka hahau ʻana i kahi wahine ʻē aʻe, hōʻike paha kēia i ka lanakila ʻana i kahi pae paʻakikī a i ʻole ka hoʻopau ʻana i kekahi mau pilikia.

Inā ʻike ka wahine hāpai ma kāna moeʻuhane ua hahau ʻia ʻo ia e kekahi mea āna i ʻike ai, hiki ke manaʻo ʻia e noi ʻo ia i kāna kōkua a i ʻole kākoʻo i ka wā e hiki mai ana.

Inā pili ka hahau iā ia, hōʻike paha ia ua loaʻa iā ia ka lokomaikaʻi a kākoʻo paha mai kēlā kanaka.

Ināʻike ka wahine hāpai e hahauʻiaʻo ia e konaʻohana ma ka moeʻuhane, hōʻike kēia moe i ka hōʻoia o ko lākou heleʻana a me ke kākoʻo iā ia i kēia wā koʻikoʻi o kona ola.

ʻO ka weheweheʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kaʻikeʻana i ka hahauʻia i loko o ka'ōpū ma ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine hoʻokahi

I loko o ke ao o ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane, he nui nā manaʻo ma hope o ka ʻike ʻana o ka wahine hoʻokahi i paʻi ʻia ma ka ʻōpū, no ka mea, lawe kēia hiʻohiʻona i nā manaʻo like ʻole e alakaʻi ai i ka maikaʻi a me ka maikaʻi i kona ola.

Hiki paha i ka hihiʻo ke hoʻololi i ke kūlana o ke kaikamahine mai ke kaumaha i ka hauʻoli a hoʻopau ʻo ia i nā pilikia e kū nei.

Inā ʻike ʻia ka makua kāne ma ka moeʻuhane e hana ana i kēia hana, hiki ke manaʻo ʻia he hōʻailona kēia o kona makemake nui e alakaʻi i kāna kaikamahine i ka mea maikaʻi a me ka pono o kona ola.

ʻO ka paʻiʻana i ka'ōpū me ka lima hema he hōʻailona hoʻi i ka hiki ke male o ke kaikamahine i kahi hoa ola nona nāʻano maikaʻi a hāʻawi iā ia i ke kākoʻo a me ke kōkua.

Paʻi kekahi iaʻu ma ka maka ma ka moeʻuhane

Ke moeʻuhane ke kanaka e paʻi ana kekahi iā ia ma ka pāpālina, hiki i kēia ke hōʻike i kekahi mau manaʻo noʻonoʻo a ka mea moeʻuhane e ʻike nei.

ʻO ka paʻi ʻana i ka papalina ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike paha i ka manaʻo haʻahaʻa o ke kanaka ma kekahi mau ʻano o kona ola, a i ʻole ia e hōʻike i kona nele i ka hanohano a me ka manaʻo ponoʻī.

Inā piʻi ka moeʻuhane e hoʻokomo i kahi maka pehu ma muli o ka hahau ʻana, hōʻike paha kēia i kahi ʻike e pili ana i ka poho a i ʻole ka hemo ʻana mai kahi kūlana.

ʻO nā moeʻuhane e pili ana i nā kūlana e like me ka ʻike ʻana i kahi pili e paʻi ana i ka maka o ka mea moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ke kū ʻana o nā kuʻikahi a i ʻole nā ​​pilikia ma waena o lākou.

ʻO ka makua kāne i ʻike ma ka moeʻuhane e hahau ana i kāna keiki, he hōʻailona paha ia o ka hoʻohewa ʻana a i ʻole ka hoʻopaʻi ʻana mai ke aloha a i ʻole ka lokoino, ʻoiai ʻo ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hahau ʻana o ka makuahine e hōʻike ana i ka loaʻa ʻana o ke alakaʻi a me ka ʻōlelo aʻo mai iā ia.

ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi malihini e hahau ana i ka mea moeʻuhane ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike paha i ka ʻeha mai nā pilikia a me nā pilikia i ke ola. Inā he hoaaloha ka mea hoʻouka kaua, hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke aʻo i ka hiki ke hoʻopunipuni a kumakaia paha ma ka ʻaoʻao o kēia hoaaloha.

ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi kanaka kaulana e paʻi iā ʻoe e hōʻike paha i ka ʻeha o kēia kanaka, ʻoiai ʻo ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai e paʻi hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻike i nā pilikia a me nā pilikia i ka pilina me ia.

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